Frank is beginning his recovery

[Cinderellaman]

We will never be friends

Friends....mmmmm well in the terminology of REAL friends, I guess it's nearly impossible as our spouses have done something that has hurt us in the core.
But I do think that in time...a type of 'friendship' could evolve.

I know I have been trying from the very beginning to remain 'friends' and looking back, I can see how foolish that was in those first months, even first years...the pain is too deep, the scar needs time to heal, and in all fairness 'friendship' doens't help to heal it.

BUT...for those of us here who do want our spouses in our future and our kids' future, I personally think (just MHO) that it makes life easier and more bearable to try and be friendly or even friends with one another...

Then again, I may be totally wrong about this. Who knows, each situation is different as is each person.

Being angry is ok too. We go through phases and yes, they do pass in time....