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[BeingMe]

Yeah, your H slept on the d@mn couch because he chose to sleep there, etc. etc. We all choose our own behaviour. Yes, I am sure you had some fault, but you didn't turn to someone else outside the marriage. Like my H at the time of our sitch, would argue that we never ML and that I would walk right past him knowing how he felt .... BS!!!! I am a mindreader now???? He made no romantic overtures to me so how the heck was I to know he was interested. These MLCers!!!! What a crock of 'you know what'. Maybe you should start taping these threats and accusations because I can tell ya, he won't remember saying them. At least, when he denies saying it, you can press the tape and play it back so he can hear it for himself.

I agree that D12 should not be involved in any arrangements, or discussions. It's not for her to be the messenger. That is too much of a burden for a young girl like her. She will end up resenting her father for this.

Oh, I am so PO at your H for you, although I am sure you are enough for both of us. Definitely, find a way for his family to know whose about to enter the fold.