Wow hoosier....I did not realize that his parents don't know about the OW.
I know this would be a fine line for you to walk...but is there any way you could leak this information to his parents???
I also know it won't do any good...it won't change the situation and it won't bring back the man you married...but...
Seems like it is only the right thing to do to let his parents know the real reason he is abandoning his family....
DQ
I wasn't surprised they didn't know; he knows that they didn't like her the first time around, and they sure aren't going to like her if they have any inkling that she broke up the marriage.
I'm definitely going to let them know. I figure, if I'm going to lose my family they might as well know the whole story. I have nothing to lose, really. He'll have a cow--but what more can he do to me, really? He is in such denial about the contribution of this affair to the end of the marriage--he still refuses to call it an affair, is adamant that he didn't leave me for her. But to admit those things would be to admit responsibility and he's nowhere near doing that. It's just so much easier to blame me.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012