Hi SS, even with the balance not fully paid, cancel the CC. If he wants credit -- let him get it on your own. Why should you share a CC that he is carrying on his A with.
I do the same thing with my H, start going off and then he shuts down and says "I am not going to talk about this" same mantra with all these WAS.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
Thanks Hope. It is his CC. We don't have ANY joint CC and haven't. He is a gambling addict and we are also LS so all of our debts are separate anyway. We have a joint account that the bills are paid out of. So the reality is, its not my business, but it hurts just the same.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
(((((((Corey))))))) I hope you are finally feeling better! I'm glad you have the LS in place. I have a feeling he could get a lot worse before he gets better. It's good that you can be clear of it.
I'm not sure I'd have a joint account with him though!
Sorry that you "saw" all of that. It does hurt even though we know it is going on. He needs to deal with that account on his own. No need for him to indirectly rub your nose in it.
Hugs dear Corey.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
hey sis, so sorry you had to find those things, the brothers two just cant quit can they? i was gonna tell you dark was easy yesterday as i slept most the day, went to C, only had to call him once as i needed rent money. of course he didnt answer, since i wasnt he wasnt stupid huh? funny how mad it made him. glad you filed LS. i am thinking about it too. just to make sure its there, and i did it first! spiteful me eh?
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Cory..I think I would cancel that card too..I'm sorry you got a little drama thrown your way..If you ever get bored I can hop over here and post my dating/kim drama on your thread so you'll feel right at home again..
The joint checking is on his account, but I have the checkbook so I'm not all that worried about that.
It just pissed me off but I should have expected it I guess, too quiet. It was about time for a little shake up and drama.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I know what you mean though. Like when I saw OM's jacket that one time, I guess. It just brings more reality to me about them. You know you shouldn't have said anything. Why ask him? Were you thinking that he really cares? Were you thinking that he was going to give you some story? You purposely started it.
You snooped his sh*t and paid the price for it. Let him do his own stuff.
Right?
We are moving forward. Both of us.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
