Exactly. And I am tired of spending every waking minute trying to figure 'him' and 'us' out. I can't do it anymore and shouldn't have done it in the first place.
So I am taking care of me and the kids and letting Dan figure out Dan. It has been nice to have a sense of calm and peace....I know I will be okay no matter what, I really do know that, so that helps me to be able to just do my think and stop dwelling.
