You do, Jeff. Ever watch the movie Willow? The high Elwyn, played by Billy Barty, is interviewing new people for an apprenticeship to become a wizard. He walks in front them, holds up his hand and asks them:
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The power to change the world resides in which finger?

One by one, they are eliminated as they choose the wrong finger. The last one Willow, hesitates, and chooses wrongly as well.

A bit later, the wizard asks Willow why he hesitated.
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You may think that this is stupid, but, I was going to choose my OWN finger.


The wizard told him that he was CORRECT and that someday, he was going to be a powerful sorcerer.

Jeff, the power to change your life lies in your own mind and hands.

Make the decision to let go and move forward. Start having fun again.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;