Hey Marisol, missed you. I am discouraged and it shows in my last postings. My SIL probably had the best advice. Tell him to ".... off, I am moving on and we are moving back with my family back east. If you want me you know where to find me, that is if I am even remotely interested." I am checking out some C now for D. I see her pain even though her father does not seem to recognize it and says she has been getting headaches because I want her to move. WTH. Of course it has no bearing that he moved out, having an A with coworker, and D has lost total respect for him.
Can't believe his mother attended the festivites for Xmas. What does a 21 year old have in common with a 35 year old man. It is obscene. If it was my D I would smack her in the head and ground her! so the D was dismissed on 1/1/09. Has your H mentioned it? I know my H wants to go ahead with the D but I too am trying to delay even though there is not any clarity to his actions at all. He even had a huge argument with his sister who he is very close with and he hung up on her because she told him he was an idiot. He said that he made his choice, he has found somebody new that he is happy with, he does not have a drinking problem, he is a grown man and can go out, have fun and have a few drinks -- no problem. Does not want to talk about me and I better move on, does not want to talk about his Ds babble babble babble. Need to focus on what is important. my girls.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
