When I Look At The Stars

[ernest88]

If I found I was getting the same results over and over again, I'd ask myself.. is it me or is it them? Since the people change, I'd figure it was me that was drawn to this type of behavior.

I disagree..since I know nothing of the people I meet or date before hand witht he exception of MHS38 then I don't see how you reason that I'm drawn to them??

Now through this process I've learned I'm responsible for my happiness. I'm responsible for my choices. I choose how quickly I connect with a man. I'm responsible for the consequences. I choose the level of involvement.

and that sounds like your judging me..

So.. I guess what I'm dancing around is.. If the same thing keeps happening over and over to you, you're doing it to yourself. You can continue doing what doesn't work and/or try something different.

well doing something different would mean me not dating I suppose..I don't think I'm actaully doing this to myself but your entitled to your opinion..I actaully think that the pickings are pretty slim..