Decided to stop in before my long overdue nap time and then the dentist.
it is not suddenly gonna come together ..as the story line of your most recent post kind of unintentionally had a ring to it like that ..to me anyway ..the hopeless romantic that I have the capability of being.
Intense Counseling is what has been and still is in order for this R of your's and his to ever experience any true joy as adults.
It seems that in order for you to retrieve really joyous and true times you have to go back quite aways to your youthful innocence. I am not suggesting to not be hopeful. Cuz where hope is depleted and lost it is to be found again from our Savior. He is true. He is right. He is love in its purest form. And I will be praying that Dan will be taught about love from the founder of it ..Jesus. That will be the next prayer as a part of the ongoing PD! Un-ceasing PD! For your sake and so that the rest of us can share in your triumph, I will ask Him with a pretty please w/ sugar on top if He can expedite that a bit for you and your family.