Well, I'm back............... lol sorta, not sure where my head is at, but I'm about to find out. I haven't been here in awhile for a few reasons. The holidays are busy of course, then I think I myself was maybe trying to bury my head in the said as well. Ughh!
UPDATE
We didn't talk about the " issues " at all over the holidays. Figured I'd wait and see if anything happened or anything was said. NOT surprised, that nothing did! Of course I'm not happy about it, but not at all shocked. The evening he left I sent him an e-mail. Telling him that one of the reasons I did chose to buy him a lab top was hopefully to save our marriage. I explained to him that I had hoped it would be a way to communicate etc without him being uncomfortable. Of course eventually I want to be able to talk, but for now email was fine. Then I asked a few questions. One of which being why AGAIN no sex.......... He was home 2 weeks and not one attempt was made with ample opportunities. I told him I felt I was owed an explanation at this point.
The other thing I mentioned was the lack of reading. He told me he would read the book. In 2 months he read 2 chapters. Yah, sorry, that's not good enough. At that rate it will take a year to read, and what's the point then. I have yet to hear a response, and I knew he'd wait. So, Ill wait to see what comes in if anything. I'll give it a week, and if nothing comes in, I am officially done, and looking to my future without him. Seems harsh, but I am done waiting around like the fool.
