It's been a while!! I have been reading up on you and your sitch... I have just been dormant... Not much has changed really...besides the divorce petition being dismissed as of 1/1/09. He has not brought it up since. He is still living at his father's rental house with OW practically living there. I did find out OW mother and brother stayed with him xmas week. They had a formal xmas dinner and his mother who use to live with me went to the dinner and met OW's mother. Unbelievable.
Glad to see your holidays went well with your family. It feels so good to be surrounded by people you love.
Has your D seen a C yet? I have been thinking about doing that for my D and myself. I did go twice to a C provided by my employer but she made me feel uncomfortable so I never went back.
Can you file legal separation instead of D right now so that your finances are protected?
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
