I have been reading your sitch...and I can very much relate with your H's claiming the OW is the love of their life. My H has only known the OW for about 6 months now and has told her she is 'the one for him' but the even harder part is that this OW is only 21 yrs old. H moved out in August and has made no effort in coming back. I know OW practically lives with him which is the main reason why he left to spend every waking moment with her. This could be also why your H left. But then soon enough they will find out what kind of women they really are. It may be to your benefit or it may not be. It really lies with how you feel and what you want. This waiting period is the hardest thing I have ever done. Many say TIME is on our side but how do you do this without loosing your mind?
You deserve someone to love you the way you want to be loved. If your H doesn't want to do that then you will know and it will be time to let go. If he is having second thoughts then follow your heart.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
