They're still somewhat subdued, even the youngest guy with doggy adhd.
My experience has been that they don't respond much unless it's the alpha dog who dies. When we returned home, one of them was trembling, one very quiet--and the adhd guy didn't seem to notice. However, I think he's picking up on the general change in the atmosphere.
D12 is doing a bit better. It was a rough weekend, and it was good for her that school started. Also she is auditioning for some parts in the middle school musical (The King and I) and that has been a good distraction.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012