New Year New Goals

[gForce]

Just an observation - when you get to the point of giving him the boot, he seems to respond by pulling you back closer. But it doesn't seem that he does so because he wants to reconnect with you, but because he needs a comfortable home and the alternative is too hard for him. Keep your expectations low. If this is a genuine change it will stick and progress. Unfortunately, his history would suggest that these "changes" are not what you need and not what you are want.