I've waited a bit to respond here and will probably still not respond correctly but here goes..

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you can do whatever you want. That is the beauty of all this.


to that I say I will and it is..

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You don't have to agree with me.


and I get that..

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and I shouldn't jump in with my impressions without you asking.


and this is the part that pisses me off a bit Kathleen..whether you post to me is up to you..I don't "ask" for people to post to me..it's up to each individual what they want to add or not add..I really see no problem with me asking for clarification when I don't understand EXACTLY what you are saying..I've mentioned from day one to certain posters here that I have a need to have things "dumbed down"...to be honest I work much better on common sense and straight up and to the point..I HATE trying to have to figure out a post that is filled with riddles, what if's..where to's and all that other stuff.

So with that..you can post to me or not..that's up to you.

and an update..

still some contact from MHS38..texting mostly..I'm talking with a new lady..virginiaschoolteacher41..three daughters, married one time, divorced 9 years..I'm taking her out Saturday I think..
meeting a lady I have been emailing/texting tomorrow for appetizers / drinks..it's a blind thing..so I have no clue how that will go....we will see..

On the Kim front..she brought a little email drama yesterday..a discussion about the child support payments led to her saying that she detected hostility in my emails..what she detects as hostility is actaully straight up and to the point business...she ended up letting me know how hard this had been on her and how she "mourned the loss of our love and marriage"..TBH and frank..I just can't validate and empathize with that bullchitt anymore and I did not...I simply do not feel sorry for her or the chitty marriage that she helped create..and she is now well aware of the fact that $727 a month in CS is $727..does not matter how you figure it..bi-weekly, weekly, by the sec., by the minute, by the signs..it makes no frinklin difference in the end it still comes out $727 a month..