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I don't see it as balck and white as you guys, I really don't. I've been seperated for 10 months now and my W was obviously unhappy for a lot longer than that. My D could take another year or more so I don't believe you put your life on hold for that long if you feel ready. I'm not saying it's going to become something proper serious with MOT35, but at the same time, she in a similar boat to me and done for a long time, I do not feel it's innapropriate to anyone but our kids.


no 2x4 from me brother..you're done..it's all good as far as I am concerned..I know you're done..I don't know that MOT35 is done..see the difference is this..

I started dating before mine was over also..I never dated a marreid woman or a woman who was with another..and have not done that yet..I had a chance with cafegirl34..she is living with a guy and if I had worked the angles I could have gotten her out..I'm confident I still could but don't want to be the OM..

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I don't think I'm out of line to think going without much physical connection for the best part of 18 months is a long time....I'm only young !!!!


i hear ya..loud and clear and feel your pain...

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I have massive respect for the way you handle things yourself, but I'm obviously a bit different here. I would accept I was wrong if I was sleeping with anything that moved, but I'm not, I'm getting to know someone, we get on and we haven't even slept together yet. I think I've said many times, I don't get the one night stand scene, it would have to be with someone I liked and was comfortable with. (Maybe next wekk !!!)


and all i'm saying is don't be OM..don't be what broke up your M..there's unmarried pootie out there to shop lift..go get it if it's about the sex..