Don't worry guys, I am all about being kind. I respect women too much (even the batchitts) to be anything else.

Gypsy go easy on those compliments, I may start to believe you!

So the usual drill on this dating thing is search for someone that meets you criteria...get her attention....chat...phone....face to facer.
I have had 5 face to facers and honestly although they all had something to offer...there was something missing. I am not saying that I will not perhaps try again with one or two but this online dating thing seems to be a tad unfair. It is too easy to expect too much becausee you can go back and search again in the hope of finding someone better.
Anyhow, last night I spoke with a nice lady...41 bank head office management type...great conversationalist.....funny....smart....down to earth...loves sports...divorced two years...two kids....by far the best phone conversation so far. So now, hopefully there is a mutual physical spark. So we are going for supper on Sunday night after I drop off D8. Voila, you are up to date.