I don't see it as balck and white as you guys, I really don't. I've been seperated for 10 months now and my W was obviously unhappy for a lot longer than that. My D could take another year or more so I don't believe you put your life on hold for that long if you feel ready. I'm not saying it's going to become something proper serious with MOT35, but at the same time, she in a similar boat to me and done for a long time, I do not feel it's innapropriate to anyone but our kids.
Also, I imagine, like the end of my M, it was a pretty much affection and sexless M for a time and I don't think I'm out of line to think going without much physical connection for the best part of 18 months is a long time....I'm only young !!!!
By all means 2x4 me and Mike, you do not need to keep saying your not judgin, I know bruv, I know. I feel I'm against the general DB principle on this front, but then I think a lot of others get to this point to. I have massive respect for the way you handle things yourself, but I'm obviously a bit different here. I would accept I was wrong if I was sleeping with anything that moved, but I'm not, I'm getting to know someone, we get on and we haven't even slept together yet. I think I've said many times, I don't get the one night stand scene, it would have to be with someone I liked and was comfortable with. (Maybe next wekk !!!)
