Jay, thanks for the support. I am really committed to helping my D15. She did not deserve it and my H is in such a fog he does not see it. It is hard to be nice while our daughter is hurting by his actions. If I have to pull away and detach and let H hang I need to do that so my daughter will be able to thrive again. take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09