Or you could tell yourself, "I am not HIS mother."
You know how they feel--they do not want a mother telling them what to do/think.
Sometimes I think these behaviors are something you inherit. Was your mother that way? And at the same time, we do not realize we have picked up on habits that our parents have/had as it just seems natural to us and we don't give it a second thought.
You are doing a good job, Glam.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19