I will pick that book up while I am out tomorrow. I have seen others on here talk about going dark. But how do you go dark when you have a D7? H is good about taking her when it is him time to have her.
I am sure I will learn a lot in the book but the other thing is this....I know that I have to meet his emotional needs but that is the part I have a hard time figuring out how to do. I guess I mean "applying" the emotional needs.
I want to treat him the way a W should but he doesn't view me as his "W".
I know that his emotional needs are being met by OW and that is what draws him to her. But what response should I give him when I start trying to fulfill his emotional needs and he asks me what the heck is going on with me?
Not sure if I am coming across the way I am meaning to here. I may be rambling. Have too much confusion in my head:(
I did not do so well with him this evening. He did not call and I knew it was because he was waiting on her to call. So I waited until an hour after he would normally call and I called him.
He said he had talked to OW but briefly. Well I got upset and pretty much told him I was tired of being his "fill in". He claims I am not and that he was just getting ready to call me. I have already learned not to believe a thing that a cheater says. The argument escalated a bit but by the end I was able to get it a little more calm.
