Hi MsMelancoly, Thanks for you continued comments.
I often think I'm being too impatient with my W. I just want everything to happen NOW....and that's not the way life works.
This is an example of a typical e-mail I get from her. I asked her out for a quick drink to catch up. Her was her reply.
Happy Ney Year Clayton! Hope you head didn't hurt too much the next day... I would love to catch up for a drink. I don't know what you are up to Wednesday. I am leaving on Thursday to go out of town for the weekend so won't be available then. Let me know... Have a good day and we'll catch up soon I hope. Love W
This is the typical verbage in our e-mails & when we're together, we get on very well. I also think that it might be me that is pushing her to keep moving ahead with the D by my impatience at being at a standstill. If I could just back right away and let her find her way back to the path.
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats