BM thank you. I know this may sound stupid, but I don't really know why I keep doing it. It just comes out without me even thinking. I just need to let my h figure it out.
Like today he said he was going to carpool and I said well that doesn't make much sense since it would have put my h in heavy traffic at the end of the day and he was expected to help with the kids. I then proceeded to go into more details and that is when h said am I not capable of figuring this out on my own.
I immediately zip my lips at this time, but then it's too late. I just think it's part of my personality and I manage people for a living and I have a tendancy to try to manage all my R's without even thinking. I have to catch myself with the kids too, especially S20.
I just need to remember to take the manager hat off when I am around my h and then I think life would be grand.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"