Just discovered w. had an affair. Devastated.

[glamgirl]

Purr so sorry about your sitch and reading this. I do think it's normal behavior to lie and hide things as if nothing is going on. Why would they want to reveal anything? What kind of a person would that make them.?

It doesn't make their behavior right or acceptable, it's just who they are at the moment.

I would be still and let your w initiate all the contact. You need to protect your heart and soul right now.

I doubt the R with OM will last. Like is he going to leave his w for yours? Tells you much about his character. How unacceptable for him too, but just goes to show how very lost they both are.

Thinking of you!