Hey G, my h has the same tendency - telling me what to do. I have to tell you, it is irritating - lol! Perhaps you could count to 5 before responding or just worry about you and let h figure things out on his own.
Why do you think you do those things? I feel like my h thinks I am incapable of doing things as well as he would. Maybe you could tell yourself that h is capable. He could do things for himself, his way.
