Hang in there Jeff. It's all part of the process. It's hard not to have expectations, especially when your w came to you with all these positives.

Back off a bit and whatever happens is going to happen. You are right, you can't control it anyway, so don't let any of it bother you.

Keep remembering you are the better half and OM has nothing on you. Your w has seen that and I am sure will continue to see that.

Hang in there, you are doing so good!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"