Jay, I am so sorry about your wife's attitude toward you. If she has made up her mind to walk away, then you she will use anything you say or do as her excuse b/c she knows she does not really have one without pointing the finger at herself. So, you may just have to drop the rope. In the last ditch attemtps, this has often times worked, but you have to do it with the complete mindset that when you drop that rope, she may never turn back again and you have to have made up your mind that you are going to be okay without her and to move forward and live your life the way you want to and do exactly what you want to do from now on. Don't let her hold you back anymore and let her do whatever she wants and do not allow it to upset you one bit b/c if it does upset you....then you never dropped the rope. Dropping the rope is truly letting her go.
Sure hope it all turn out the way you want it to, Jay.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
