He gave me a warm kiss on my...cheek and neck and I went back to sleep. He watched TV for a while and then came to bed. In the middle of the night I snuggled up to him and he held me for a while. Then I went back to my corner and he stayed at his. This is what happens :when I do or say something "nice" he follows but NEVER initiates.
While I realize that you want him to initiate and want you so bad that you don't have to ask him or suggest it to him. It sounds like you just want him to go at it with you ..... similar to what a 3 year old would do to his/her Xmas presents under the Xmas tree and just get unwrapping with a certain gusto and tenacity.
Trouble is that very much is what is played out in Hollywood movies and not in real life but for some rare alignment of the sun and stars (so to speak).
The key is that this expectation on your part is failing miserably and you are taking it personally that he won't initiate because you PERCEIVE that it is because he doesn't desire you and ML with you as he once did. And I have a feeling that is BS!!!
A few simple words will do (I will betcha a bunch of virtual $$)
Those simple words would be :
H, I would like it if you would ML to me!
How hard can that be (reel your mind back in and I will try to do likewise)..Maria. In your case I hope you find out!
Don't be a stubborn Greek!
Hope that provides you with some resources for a possible solution on this particular matter
