H had a meeting today, so I left work a little early to get home for s7. I do have a tendancy to try to tell h what to do. I just have to get that branded into my brain.

It was minor stuff, but h's respone is do you think I need help with figuring that out or don't you think I have thought about that.

It is just so natural for me to say things. I just need to zip and just listen and the world would be so wonderful.

2009 focus on just listening and validating with h. No offering advice or his words telling him what to do.

H said he would come over after his meeting. If he does great, if not I will have fun with the kids.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"