Yes, msm, I have not been consistant with the friend/not friend thing. It is hard to know when to offer help and when to let her take care of herself, which she needs to learn how to do.

I don't claim that I know or knew whether I was taking the right approach at any particular time....

It's something I am trying to figure out....


Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09