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Sorry (((Smurf)))...you okay?


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Thanks LolaL, yeah, just a little knock back.

Glad you getting support from Elliecat. She is a wonderful person, and her posts remind me of our chats on the phone. She went through hell. Now they are as happy as the preverbial pigs in sh!t.

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Simon,
I can't believe your beautiful daughter did that! I like ear piercings, but that's about it. I think piercings elsewhere on the face detract from the beauty that the face shows. I hope she'll grow out of that stuff and soon.

Why would the son give her perfume? What a wacky holiday!

I do hope that you are okay now. I'm sorry.


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Yuck....

I'm sorry


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
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Originally Posted By: Smurf_SMR
Thanks LolaL, yeah, just a little knock back.

Glad you getting support from Elliecat. She is a wonderful person, and her posts remind me of our chats on the phone. She went through hell. Now they are as happy as the preverbial pigs in sh!t.



That gives me a LOT of hope!!! Thanks...


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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I can't believe your beautiful daughter did that! I like ear piercings, but that's about it.


Ditto - All encouraged by her mother. 3 years ago she secretly took her for a Naval piercing, against my wishes. In the summer it was a lip piercing and now this one through the nose.

As to the perfume, it all baffles me. Only perhaps the OM trying to win favours, he would have funded it.

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Smurf I am so sorry that you have been hit sideways by this latest turn of events. I personally cannot imagine why any mother would allow (let alone encourage) thier beautiful daughter to disfigure themselves in this way. I do hope that eventually your D sees this and has these piercing removed.

By the way Happy New Year.


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The latest.

Daughter sneezed, and the piercing came out, could not help laughing.

Heard that the boyfriend is 24 or 25. I cant believe my wife encourging a 16 year old to have a relationship with a man 1.5 times her age.

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OMG! I can't blame you, I'd have laughed too.

BTW, your daughter is a minor and that young man better not do the naughty w/her or he could end up in jail. I don't know what your wife was thinking, but I think this guy is too old for your daughter.

How are things going otherwise?


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Hi Snodderly, thanks for looking in on me.

Wife has certainly lost the plot. Apparently out every night, catching up on times past.

Daughter is back here with me, after the christmas break, and has not mentioned anything about going back to visit, so I think the relationship will fizzle out before it has started.

Life is great, work is great, friends are great.

Funny, a lot of them I cannot even converse with due to the language barrier, yet I get invited to Dinner and Parties.

I am certainly back to the person I was before, if not better!

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