Yes, you should have insisted!!! H would have had a decent excuse to come into the WCW love nest for a backrub rodeo! You can see why I get so exasperated with you. You are hopeless. Oh yes! I forgot. THAT is why you are posting here... not home on the hopefulness range where you belong.
You must set up another FF date for the next ice-storm. Buy eggo waffles or something in case you need to do this. You do not want unhappy company knocking on the bedroom door wondering where the Captain Crunch is. Think this out and be prepared. I am certain the next ice storm is near....
Probably the horsey social season is winding down. If so, you could invite a gaggle of horse loving 4-H-ers. Little tweeny bopper girls to sleep over and then do chores while you and Cowboy 'shower'. See how helpful I can be?