She could be just a woman that focused on her career. My pre marriage girlfriend (and her sisters) were like that - she wanted kids, but there was always some new job causing her to move away.
exactly my point with the questions..Kim was 36, career oriented...her clock was ticking..she wanted kids..
Isn't dating a beautiful thing? You get to know someone, discover something that's quirky.. decide what to do.
This is a practice time. A time to experiment on what works, what doesn't. If something hits me in the face, I pay attention to it. Instead of being fear based, it's awareness based.
Dating is supposed to be fun, enjoyable. At least that's what I'm thinking when it comes time for me to take the plunge.
Of course.. I have to stop screaming and jumping three feet in the air all while running away when a guy unexpectedly touches me in places I'm not expecting. Good instincts.. just need to bring down the reaction a tad.
Actually had a drink with medical assistant 42 today. Nice lady...won't go into details because I don't want any red flags. No, I was not unexpectedly touched....I am not as lucky as some it seems.
Finally, my recent dating may sound much more "involved" than it actually is. It is just drinks or supper...nothing more...I have not turned into Don Juan.
AE45 sent an e-mail with her phone number and told me how much she enjoyed our evening (drinks in case anyone gets any ideas). Also mentionned that I was a gentleman????? Better work on that. Also, IL40 resurfaced today.....apologizing for her erratic behaviour. Told me she wanted to go out on Friday (actually it was a little more graphic). I may have to use the old D8 excuse. The buffet table is beginning to get a little crowded and dare I say it Batchit crazy. What the hell did I get myself into? Well on the positive side my exlife does not creep into my mind like it used to. I really have to go out and get me a little black book...who would have thought???? Now if I could just land a job I enjoy...I will be all set.
John you are sooo funny! Seriously! You're like a one man date-a-thon. You should set up a pledge line, donate-per-date, you'll make thousands! Do it for the needy!
God I dont know how I would act after a date (if I ever get invited on one, lol). The last two BF's before my ex, I just sort of...moved in really after the first date. You know, forget the buffet, move straight to the daily meat and veg.. so to speak. I only date people I've already fallen in love with though, so that makes it easier!
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Sounds like you need to start recording "Date Telemetry" and graphing it on a big white board with different color markers for each "dish" in the buffet and see how they fit into the grand scale of things...
