I'm relieved to hear she's his biological daughter and a wonderful father. Looking at porn wouldn't detract from that...

I was wondering about him having an addictive personality. Does he know this about himself? I wonder if the addiction could be transfered to something healthier. Like maybe spending more time with you? Or some type of hobby....

I think it's 100% normal for a guy to look at porn, but I think it would depend on how often and if he's using in place of realtiy. I know my husband doesn't look at porn regularly. I'm pretty sure the guys he knows will sometimes send some silly emails to each other once in a blue moon with some pornographic stuff or theme. But I've seen the history for what my husband looks at and it's not porn. I think he'd find it kind of boring on a regular basis. I don't know if that makes him abnormal. Perhaps some guys on this site can chime in about what's normal. I'm not saying my husband would never look at porn, it's just I think he's too busy doing other things like watching stocks, or sports, cleaning the pool, fixing things, etc... He's just really busy.

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