It is tough. That's for sure. It is hard when we spend time together and the OW calls. It just happened today. We spent the day together (he asked me over) and she called but he did not answer the phone to her.
I know he sees she is playing games with him as well. She is M also and her H knows nothing of this A. She gives my H the run around a lot when it comes to meeting up or them doing things together. H gets aggravated but continues to put up with it from her.
I really am not sure of H's thoughts on things. I have not asked where he and I are concerned. I was always the one saying I would never take him back after we split so I don't know if he feels that is set in stone or not. I am afraid to ask. Not sure I want to hear him flat out say we are through.
But I think for my own sanity I am going to ask. At least then I will know whether I have to find it in myself to really let him go or do what I have to to hold on and try to get him back.
I do know I will not take him back with OW still in the picture. She would have to go. Any ideas on how to approach him with this "talk"?
