Simon, I can't believe your beautiful daughter did that! I like ear piercings, but that's about it. I think piercings elsewhere on the face detract from the beauty that the face shows. I hope she'll grow out of that stuff and soon.
Why would the son give her perfume? What a wacky holiday!
I do hope that you are okay now. I'm sorry.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.