No problem. situation carries a lot of weight with me. Same sitch as yours with regard to work, the house and then basically bupkiss. unfortunately rather than be productijve on weekends we partied. And that pretty much helped her move on to where she is, partying, not worerying aobut lights and heat and phone getting shut off anymore, losing the house, scraping by.
I have tuered things around just like you. At least yours sees it, now, for what it really is and who you really are. Mine, well, I don't know. but again, she is with OM, I don't care what she thinks. I'm better, things are progressing with me and my house and my friends and my family and my kids and my grandkids and etc.....What does she have, no money, few friends, a busted up car, no spare tire and plenty of parties to go too!!!! eventually, like me, she will see the parties aren't as important as you think they are. what's important is who you are and how much you are loved by those around you.
