TxMom - how to get through the pain #3 post

[S.T. _I Made It!]

I don't think, as a christian, we should ever be okay with divorcing, because it says, let no one break what God has brought together. Divorce is not what is suppose to happen, but sometimes sin enters in, and since we cannot control anyone but ourselves, well, that is why life can be hard.

but my H honestly thinks or tells himself that we would have ended up Divorced eventually... that he was that unhappy... wouldn't I have been able to tell if my H was really that unhappy???

this I actually disagree with. yes, I do believe you knew your H, but really knowing if he was unhappy, well, sometimes the unhappy person doesn't even realize...until the think they've realized true happiness. and that, is usually a mirage. That is why that D's usually involve an A.

I didn't realize how unhappy I was until my H threw the bomb at me, and I was able to look at our sitch with open eyes.



sorry I've been gone, it's easy for me to lose threads.



Jen... God definitely gave you the promise of a saved M. He did not bind you together just for it to be broken. Keep your faith. the faith of a mustard seed can move mountains, Jesus said, and your mountain CAN be moved.