She states she is just numb and doesn't feel the same. She doesn't know if she'll ever be able to love me again. She just can't answer anything because she doesn't know.
This is word perfect to what I heard from my wife.
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I help daily with wash, fix meals, and try to do my share at home, so it's not all on her as a rule.
Did you always do this? You may have missed my post before, but this will be seen as groveling, she will not respect you and this will begin to repulse her. I have been there and done it.
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As far as sex, do I refrain from trying or do I just try and let the chips fall where they may.
Rhetorical question !!??
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It's confusing, she will act normal sometimes.
She will act normal, when there is no pressure and relationship talk. She has done the hardest part by dropping the bomb. When you confront, ask for answers and cajole her, she will get defensive and retaliate.
When I totaly backed off, I heard no seperation talk for nearly a year, she felt comfortable, and was fairly amenable.
