I was just at your thread. Keep your chin up. Insurance wise, I no I'll probably not do anything but hold the reality in front of her. financaially, she is crushed, but I don't want her back for that reason. But now I wonder how he is going to like having to drive up here and get her, bringher down there with the people who accept "them" and then drive her home and back. thats four trips. She usually drives down and bakc when her weekend is over. Yes I know this. what happens when his "weekend date" requires shuttle service. I see that being more effort than he is going to want to put forward. No tire on her car, but she went out and bought some stiff for herself at a store, saw the bank statemnt. SHe could've paid for ythe insurance she owes me, bought a tire for her car, but no, she some CW apparel...Priorities are right in line with the alien she has become...