Not sure Flynn. All I know was about a year ago, OMW told me it was a possibility. And if it happens, it wouldn't be until some time next fall, but now that he's found the next love of his life, I'm not sure I see it happening.

Anyway, The way I look at it, if he does move back and W and I are still not where both of us want to be, then I'll just move on. I'm done worrying about the POS. If she is talking to him she will never responsd to me but, at least we're really good friends now and I can live this way for a while. If we were separated I'd be doing things with friends anyway, so since I'm doing stuff with my best friend anyway, what's the difference?

And since my new boss knows the situation, I'm imagining that something will come up in the next year. Not exactly what I'd planned, but it puts into focus what I need to do, so I can live with it.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.