Alos, sorry for the delay, I did walk away from my bad feelings Saturday night. I calmed myself and said whatever. He is not my problem, she is not my problem, they are each others problem, what's for dinner. But I do appreciate you looking out for me. He cannot hold a candle to me in any level. So she has what she wants. Even her friends, when they comment about him to me, I respond with, well she is with who she has chosen to be with,. And that's all I say. then they start with the comparisons. And I say, it is not what you see, it is what she sees, and she is with who she has chosen to be with.
AmyC and 25 year have both commented about when she will realize and do comparisons and see things for what they are, I will shine then. but until that time, my time is my time, my life is my life. there is no ours, us, we....there is only me and her and them.
