I can't think of anything new to add that Mike and Woog didn't already say. I know that feeling of "I can't believe this is happening to me". It sucks.
Being in the proximity of your H has got to be so confusing.
I refused and so should you to be Plan B
I respect that everyone has different levels of crap they will take. In saying this, I mean that When you get a big ole belly full of this sh*t, you'll shove yourself away from the table. Only you know when it's enough...... it seems like our opinion of Dan is for sh*t and we care for you. We are biased that way.
Take peace that you will recognize when you have had enough and will act in the manner that is best for you and your kids.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too