So here is a bit of an interesting tidbit that I would like some opinions on. H emailed me this morning because he is getting his final paperwork together for immigration. He asked me for some information on the paperwork, where I am still convenientily listed as his wife (eyes rolling, yeah its okay to say I am his wife when HE needs something) and wanted to know if I knew of someone who could look over the paperwork. I do know an attorney in the office who worked an immigration clinic, so she agreed to look over the paperwork.
Okay, so I am not his sponsor for citizenship, that is his ex-wife. I asked this attorney, let's call her M, if it was going to make a difference that we are now separated, and explained that I was not his sponsor. She said that INS (or USCIS, as it is now called) might take longer to look through his paperwork because they will want to know WTF is going on that this dumbkoff cannot seem to keep a marriage together, and could ultimately deny the application, although they probably won't.
So I sent this email: I talked to M about this. She said I will need to list the address that I am living at.
She also warned about this…USCIS may take longer to approve your application because they will want more information regarding XW and they can ask why we are separated. She said that her two friends that work in immigration say that they are cracking down on who is approved. Because I am not your sponsor, this should not have an effect on you, but she wanted me to tell you because it could take longer to process your paperwork.
He calls me in a total panic, what does that mean? There is nothing we can do? Do we need to get an attorney for the immigration??? I told him to calm down, that all it meant is that he might have to answer questions about why he divorced XW and why we are S. I agreed that there was nothing we could do, and it just might take a little longer.
It was kind of funny, b/c what I really WANTED to say is DUMBKOFF get your head out of your arse and see that GOD IS TRYING TO TELL YOU SOMETHING...
AHHHHH!!!!!! How can a person who is so smart be so stupid!!!
<~~~ Breathing, eyes closed, hand reaching out...resounding SMACK!!! on the side of the head...
I am thinking he panicked because he thought I was going to tell him it would be better for me to move back into the house so we didn't have to worry about this, and that he could accuse me of using something else to try to get back together with him. This is not the case.
Anyway, input?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
