Looking for some understanding.

[dday101798]

You've already answered your own qustion, well atleast one, homework, get out there and find something to keep your mind off of dwelling on the M before it consumes you whole. the more productive the better, learn a new hobby or skill or womething.

And yes, friends and family are great, but, NO talk of the M problems as they will only see your point of the problems and only tell you your spouse IS THE ONLY PROBLEM. Wrongo! We all play our parts in our M problems, question is do you realise yours yet or not, of so, good, get out there and work them and make yourself a better person.