I called my h to say that I have an appointment with a lawyer on Wednesday to prepare a draft separation agreement. When I asked him how he felt about that he said: "probably no better than you".
What????? He left the m, he moved out, he is now with ow (may be the "love of his life").... if I was in his shoes I would probably feel indifferent and would certainly not be saying that I felt the same way as the LBS.