I just spoke to my wife...I called to talk to the kids, and ended up talking to her as well, only a couple of min though. We talked about the meeting at the church...I told her that I had attempted to call him, but he is at a retreat until Wed, so I will have to wait until then to try and set this thing up. My W is okay with setting up next week, if that's what has to be done. I would really like to get this ball rollin' quickly, but we'll see. The convo also somehow went to the whole relationship status thing...she said that she had recieved unsolicited emails to her from guys (not outlandish...you can search for people on there based on rel status....and she was not going to put 'married' as her status, but felt that the 'in a rel' bit would curb that...for some reason I tend to believe her...it gives me peace at any rate, so I can live with that.