Sara, (I am reading your thread and wishing there was Retrouvaile somewhere close to us-thanks for sticking around to help),
I am one of those weird chicks that I dont want sex for sex. And for me the best aphrodisiac is to feel wanted. My H hasn't shown that he "wants" me. And that turns me off completely.
Anyway, I have two more days off work and have been trying to clean the closets, dvds, cds etc etc. Other than that, not much is going on. H said something on the phone meaning he would like to spend the night here again (he finishes work early today). We'll see.
I am ok, really, calmed down. I dont know how, I guess deciding his actions will not rule my moods, helped a lot. xxx K