that must be very nice T...hmmmm, I'm kinda curious how you've kept that intensity for as long as you've been together. Not that I need to know detailed info, but sometimes I wish our physical chemistry was "hotter". Although, I can tell you, the first time we ML after the sitch, boy, that was very intense. blushing.
Well without giving up the secret recipe to our wonderful between the sheets stuff, I will do my best to briefly and concisely share (in a tactful way) what my thoughts on the matter are.
For one thing, as is the case with many things, there surely is no secret for me to divulge to anybody with reagard to the ML. The only edge that I hold over anybody (if in fact I even do) is that I dedicate myself to my beautiful darling in an extra-special way when it comes to us ML. By my nature I tend to alter my patterns of doing most anything in life ..my drive to and from work, the walks I take Rue on, etc. And this pays off in the bedroom or wherever we happen to ML ..lol.
So ..as I am on this kick of passing out ML advice, I think the best advice that I can give is to treat it as the amazing gift that the Lord has given us to indulge in. You get out of it what you put into it (the age old expression ..and nothing more). So if you appraoch it from the standpoint of setting ML as the joyous ocassion that it is meant to be between a H & W. Place it on a pedestal on which nothing else that is going on in life whether good or bad will have any bearing upon ML.
I happen to be dealing with the double edged sword that allows for the isolation of our intimate times together not to be interfered in any way by any kiddos and all that being a parent entails (for the most part my SD20 has an almost negligible interference role ..damn text messages ..lol). So we get to practice the baby-making procedure (I almost typed ..drill ..then I remembered that I am tactful ..lol ..honest too )
One of these days I hope that my dream of having my darling bring our child into the world will be realized. Until then we will be a practicin'.
It starts with desire for intimacy ..& it builds more intimacy. The Lord's plan with this and all things is indeed perfect.
blushing. 