My H does the family thing with my kids and the OW, and tells them she's a friend. So adultery and lying--great role model for the kids!!! Karen
The worse part is the ONLY people that believe their lies are them. The kids know deep down, even though they probably don't want to. Interestingly enough, if the situation were reversed and you (Karen, you too) started bringing someone around the kids, I'll bet it wouldn't be received well at all. Not that your would, I'm just saying. The different rules is something that irkes me to no end.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option